Last updated on February 20th, 2024 at 11:33 pm
Using affirmations to attract a specific person is the best way to get that certain someone you’ve had your eye on.
Some of you may be thinking to yourself
- How can I attract a specific person?
- How long will it take?
- Can affirmations attract a specific person?
- Will I ever truly find love?
If this is you, then you’re in luck because the answers to your questions lie below, my friend. And I want to go ahead and say, you will find the love of your life and it will happen sooner than you may expect.
Use my powerful list of 100 affirmations to attract a specific person to finally meet the love of your life!
How to use affirmations to attract a specific person
1. Choose at least 3-5 affirmations that stick out to you
You don’t want to overdo your affirmations so the best rule of thumb is to choose about 3-5 that resonate the most with you.
When I say overdo, I mean you don’t want to pick 15 affirmations from this list and then be unmotivated to say them each day because you’ve set the bar so high.
Start off light and work your way up.
You want to make sure you’re choosing affirmations that either inspire, uplift, or motivate you.
If you don’t feel like this when you’re saying your affirmations, do not fret for this is normal in the beginning and a lot more common than you think.
2. Repeat Your Affirmations Every Day
Consistency is key my friend. You must use your affirmations each day once a day.
If you skip a day, it’s okay, but try not to make it a habit. Think about a doctor prescribing you medicine for example.
If that doctor told you to take the medicine every day for 10 days but you decided to take them every other day for 20 days do you think it would work the same?
No.
You have to stay consistent and stay committed with your affirmations.
I can personally vouch for this as in the beginning when I was using some of these exact same affirmations before I met the love of my life.
I wasn’t using them consistently; I would only say them here or there a few times a week. It wasn’t until I started using them consistently when I met him.
It was about 3 months before I met him when I started using affirmations to attract a specific person consistently.
I am in no way saying that it only takes 3 months to meet the love of your life. What I am saying is that if you don’t use the affirmations consistently, chances are it will take longer.
Read More: How To Make Affirmations Work Faster
3. Trust And Believe That You Will Attract Your Soulmate
Nothing, and I do mean nothing, will work if you don’t believe it will.
Again, if you’re new to affirmations, it’s normal to feel silly at first. If you continue to use them, over time you will naturally have different feelings when you repeat your affirmations.
You ideally want to tap into the feelings you would have when you attract what it is you desire, in this case, your specific person.
If you find yourself still feeling like your affirmations aren’t working or you still feel skeptical after a while, then there may be something else going on.
Tip: The most common mistake people make when using affirmations is not letting go of limiting beliefs.
Limiting beliefs is the thoughts or state of mind that stops you from doing/going after certain things, according to Better Up,
The reason why you want to let go of limiting beliefs is because they can and will hinder you in the long run.
If you strive to have/do better in life, then that requires you to build a better mindset because your outer world is a direct reflection of your inner world.
A part of building a better mindset is letting go of the thoughts and feelings that do not serve you.
4. Visualize While Using Your Affirmations
Visualization is a powerful tool to attract your desires.
What I specifically mean when I say visualize is to imagine specific scenarios with your dream partner either before, during, or after saying your affirmations.
Take a few minutes, close your eyes, take a few deep breaths, and start to imagine scenarios such as:
- Going out on a date with your specific person
- Going to family get-togethers as a couple
- Running errands together
The type of scenario doesn’t really matter as much as experiencing the feelings you would have while you’re doing those things.
So while you’re visualizing yourself, for example, running errands together you want to focus on feelings such as:
- Happiness
- Gratitude
- Joy
Why?
Because these are all feelings you will experience when you have your partner (hopefully).
The best way to tap into your feelings while visualizing is imagining specific things that will happen in those scenarios like:
- Laughing together
- Play fighting
- Joking around with each other
5. Be Patient
Do not stress about attracting your soulmate. This is so important because if you stress about your desire, you will push it further away from you.
When you’re anxious about getting what you want, you naturally come from a place of desperation and lack. When you come from a place of desperation and lack, you are putting out the frequency of desperation and that is exactly what you will get in return.
Desperate attempts will attract desperate results. Desperate energy attracts even more desperate energy. You don’t want that.
You want to be with the partner of your dreams, so in order to attract your specific person you have to let go of the outcome.
It may be difficult at first, but I promise it’s possible. Something that instantly brings me peace of mind if I start to feel stressed about achieving my desires, I pray.
Other things that instantly bring peace of mind:
- Meditating
- Going for a run or a walk
- Reading
- Yoga
- Knitting
- Painting
Read More: 107 Motivational Affirmations For Letting Go And Trusting The Universe
Affirmations To Attract Specific Person
1. I am capable of attracting all that I desire
2. If my mind can conceive it then I can achieve it
3. I deserve a partner who loves and values me
4. I deserve to be heard and seen in a relationship
5. I deserve a relationship that brings me peace
6. I am grateful for all opportunities that come my way
7. The man of my dreams is out there
8. I deserve love and respect in my marriage
9. I am worthy of affection
10. I am attracting the man of my dreams
11. I trust that all things work out in my favor
12. I trust that God is crafting the perfect man for me
13. I am open to receiving love in my life
14. I am confident in my ability to have a healthy relationship
15. I am attracting a healthy and committed relationship into my life
16. I let go of all fears I have about relationships
17. I am capable of becoming who I need to be to have a healthy relationship
18. I am capable of creating the marriage of my dreams
19. The love I give is the love I receive
20. I am open to the changes that come with a new relationship
Affirmations For Self-Love And Healing
21. I am loved beyond measure
22. I am grateful for all the love that surrounds me
23. I am whole and I am worthy
24. I am enough
25. I choose to focus on the things I love most about myself
26. I am confident in my abilities to attract the partner of my dreams
27. I am grateful for my body and my beautiful vibes
28. I am proud of all that I have achieved so far
29. I am worthy of a trusting and respectful relationship
30. Each day I will continue to put my best foot forward
31. I am in control of my destiny
32. The actions I take today determine my future
33. I am desirable and attractive
34. I strive to radiate love and peace
35. I can attract any man that I want
36. I enjoy spending time with myself while I attract the man of my dreams
37. I am committed to growth and healing
Present Moment Affirmations To Attract Love
38. I am so grateful I have a partner who supports me
39. I am grateful to have a man who provides for me
40. I am grateful to have a man who treats me well
41. I am grateful for all of the little things my man does for me
42. I love having a partner who adds to my happiness
43. I love having a partner who I can grow with
44. I am grateful to have a partner who considers me
45. I enjoy spending time with my man
46. I enjoy the laughs and memories I am building with my partner
47. I feel safe and secure around my man
48. I am grateful to have a partner who takes the initiative
49. I am grateful to have a partner who loves and adores me
50. I am grateful I can have fun with my man
51. I am excited for all of the milestones my man and I will hit
52. I am in love with myself and my partner
53. My relationship inspires those around me
54. I am grateful to have a partner who adores me
55. I am grateful to have a partner who would rather solve our issues as a team
56. I am grateful that my partner is also my best friend
57. I appreciate all of the romantic things my man does for me
58. I appreciate all of the dates my partner and I go on
59. My partner and I share a powerful bond
60. I am grateful to have a happy and stable relationship
61. I am open to building a strong connection with my partner
62. I enjoy making my partner happy
63. I enjoy making my partner laugh and smile
64. I am grateful that I have found my specific partner
65. I enjoy creating peace and harmony in my relationship
Affirmations To Attract Love
66. I am attracting my dream partner with ease
67. There is no limit on what I can attract into my life
68. My soulmate is on his way to me
69. The relationship I seek is the relationship I will have
70. Who better to have the man of my dreams than me?
71. I release all anxiety and fears that developed from past relationships
72. I release all of the thoughts that have the potential to block my blessings
73. I release all old feelings from past relationships
74. My past relationship was preparing me for my future relationship
75. My past relationship has shown me better ways to love myself
76. I am aligned with the love of my life
77. I am committed to creating a relationship full of love, trust, and respect
78. I will do my best to be my best
Read More: How To Manifest Your Soulmate The Right Way
Love Affirmations That Work Fast
79. I am grateful I have the partner of my dreams
80. I attract all that I desire
81. Each day presents a new opportunity to meet the love of my life
82. I am excited to build the relationship I’ve always desired
83. I am blessed beyond measure
84. I am willing to give and receive love
85. I trust that God will place the right person in my life
86. I look forward to growing old with my soulmate
87. I deserve romance and excitement in my relationship
88. I am grateful to have endless opportunities to have a healthy relationship
89. Thank you God for being the miracle worker, the promise keeper, and the waymaker
90. I am grateful for all the romantic love that surrounds me
91. I am grateful to be able to learn from some of the healthy relationships I’ve seen
92. Everywhere I go I see loving healthy relationships
93. I am worthy of a meaningful relationship
FAQ
Can affirmations attract specific person?
If you’re wondering can affirmations attract a specific person the answer is yes! Affirmations can attract a specific person, but I must say that you cannot use affirmations to control or manipulate how someone feels.
Affirmations are not about controlling someone else’s thoughts or actions; they are about raising your mindset and aligning your thoughts/feelings with your desires.
What are the best affirmations to manifest a specific person?
The Best Affirmations To Manifest A Specific Person Are:
- I am attracting my dream partner with ease
- I am worthy of a healthy strong relationship
- I am grateful for the deep and meaningful connection I have with my soulmate
- I am capable of creating the marriage of my dreams
How can I attract a specific person?
How To Attract A Specific Person:
- List all of the traits you want in a dream partner and/or love about this person
- Visualize yourself in specific scenarios with this person
- Let go of the fears you may have developed from past relationships
- Become the person that you want to attract (aka become aligned with them)
- Let go of the final outcome
Can I manifest a specific person to love me?
While you cannot manifest someone to love you, you absolutely can manifest more love into your life.
You can’t determine how someone else feels. You can only determine how you feel. So the best thing to do is accept your situation for what it is and actively search for ways to better your situation without harming yourself or others.
Final Thoughts On Affirmations To Attract A Specific Person
Affirmations to attract a specific person are the best way to attract the partner of your dreams.
Be careful of allowing limiting beliefs to get in the way of the life that you want because I will be the first to tell you that anything it is you want in this world you can have.
If you ask and believe you shall receive. It doesn’t get more simple than that folks.
Make sure to repeat at least one-two of these affirmations a day, continue to be patient, and allow things to work out for the greater good.
Know that what you desire is on its way to you. Thank you for reading and until next time!
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